With the hustle and bustle of everyday life and the craze of the holidays just around the corner, finding family time can prove to be a bit difficult. Research shows that gratitude is one of the most powerful—and efficient—ways to strengthen a relationship. In this season of giving thanks, take the time to enjoy and be thankful for your kids (no matter their age;) while they are still at home. Here are five ideas to keep family at the forefront and make this month meaningful.
1. Tell Each Other Thank You
As parents we teach our kids to say, please and thank you, but we don’t necessarily talk about its underlying meaning of gratitude. Make it a priority this month to thank your children and your spouse and encourage them to do the same. Saying “Thank you for cleaning your room” or “Thank you for sharing with your brother,” not only lets children know that their efforts are appreciated, it also instills the idea that “thank you” is not just reserved for receiving material items, but also appreciating what other people do for them.
2. Write Notes of Appreciation
In this day of social media and technology kids don’t have the chance to write notes that often. Ask your kids to write down or draw their favorite things you do as a family. You just might be surprised by what they choose! You could also ask your kids to write a note or draw a picture to someone they’re thankful for. They can write notes to favorite family members, teachers, youth group leaders … your kids will enjoy the process and will probably also get great feedback from the recipients.
3. Live in the Moment
Whether you’re packing lunches or shuttling kids to an after school activity, you do not need an abundance of free time to enjoy your crew. Take time to appreciate the good things with your kids. Use travel time in the car as an opportunity to share something positive, perhaps by saying, “Look at the pretty leaves on that tree” or sing along to one of your kids’ favorite songs. When you tuck your kiddos into bed at night, ask what they’re grateful for that day.
4. Spend Quality Time Together
Finding time to unwind can be difficult during the holiday season, but folding in relaxation with the typical day’s schedule can be the perfect opportunity to spend time together. You can play games or color with younger kids. Older kids might enjoy making a craft or playing a video game together. You can always ask the kids what they would like to do. However, it’s not really about the activity. For kids, holidays are about the nurturing and extra attention they receive from parents, grandparents and other close family and friends.
5. Contribute Together
Put the spirit of Thanksgiving into practice by donating goods like canned food items, personal care items (soap, toothpaste, diapers), new clothing (warm socks, jackets) or toys to local non-profit organizations. Look for opportunities to volunteer as a family. Serve food at a local shelter or put together care packages for senior citizens or soldiers overseas. Show how giving time, not just money or objects, is another way of helping others and acknowledging gratitude for what you already have.
We’d love to hear how your family shows gratitude! Share with us in the Comments below.
